Stick a camera in front of anyone's face and see how they respond. Most of the time, I would say most people are not their authentic selves. True expression is not an easy thing to pull out of a person, with the pressure of a photo lense staring them in the face.
I like to connect with people before my camera leaves the bag. Especially if there are young children in the session.
Sometimes they will just walk right up to you and sit in your lap like this little cutie pie.
Finding out who is going to be in your session is key!
I always ask my clients to list the names and ages of whom are in the family, preceding the photo session. This way, I already know everyone's name and it can help break the ice a little bit faster.
If young children are present, I introduce myself to the parents first to show them that I am friendly. Shortly after, I try to connect on the youngsters level. For me, this means sometimes literally getting to their height level. Playing with them and their toys can build an instant connection. Even getting down on one knee and asking to get a high five or "knuckles" can dramatically change your dynamic with a little girl or dude. If you can use their toy as an attention grabber, you have gained a step in the game! Do not hesitate to make silly noises, laughs, hiccups, or any other sound to grab the little one's attention.
As your subjects get older, you may have to use different techniques to grab their attention. Knowing Disney characters, up and coming pop stars, and even social media influencers can help you connect with different ages. Getting a pop culture reference wrong with the wrong age group can make you end up look like a big dork. But guess what? I am a big dork, so they usually just end up laughing anyway. Which is my goal!
Engagement Session Fitzgerald Marine Reserve 2017
Open-ended questions are a great way to get someone to open up to you. A simple yes or no question can make it difficult to keep a two-sided, natural conversation going.
Instead of saying, "Did you have a good weekend?" say something along the lines of, " What are you up to this next weekend?" This might seem personal to some, but even if they say, "Eh, I don't really have anything planned," I can still reply with, " Ahh, man! I love those sorta weekends. Spontaneous plans are awesome." It is hard for people to not agree. It almost always leads to another question or topic of discussion.
Bring up questions that can boost positivity, confidence, and happy family memories.
As I photograph my clients, I truly love learning about who they are. Learning and feeling out family dynamics can improve your chances of getting the perfect photo. Working with children can have its challenges, but they can be hilarious and a ton of fun to work with.
Trying different poses with the family can open up different connections. Maybe the daughter leans on dad more, while the son wants to hold the dog. These are the details that can create an amazing family connection through the camera that does not appear forced.
